La qualità della risposta sta nella qualità della domanda
Ognuno di noi può ottenere ciò che vuole ma esistono tre condizioni fondamentali:
1. Dovete volerlo intensamente.
2. Dovete conoscere le giuste strategie.
3. Dovete applicarle.
Tutti noi possediamo già il potenziale per cambiare e migliorare, dobbiamo solo scoprire come fare. Il destino lo creiamo anche noi, come pensiamo, come parliamo e come agiamo. Il tuo futuro è in funzione dei tuoi pensieri, delle tue parole e delle tue azioni.
Ci sono schemi ricorrenti, comportamenti che portano al successo, e comportamenti che portano alle delusioni. Il segreto sta nel riconoscerli, in te e negli altri.
Perché vincere non è un caso, è un’abitudine. Chi vince tende a vincere spesso. Così come chi perde, del resto.
Se vuoi affermarti - nel lavoro, nella vita privata - devi conoscere le giuste strategie. Avere le strategie giuste ti può far risparmiare tempo, in fatto di sbagli, sofferenze e tentativi.
10 Ways To Support Your Child’s Self-Esteem Development
1. Work with the child to identify what may be missing, and if put into place, would allow him or her to be more effective (rather than looking for what’s wrong with them).
2. Assist each child to identify and pursue special hobbies, interests and passions that empower their lives and develop their unique gifts.
3. Regularly support children to see the other person’s perspective and to possess empathy and understanding. Support them to realize that allowing others to upset them is always optional and easily avoided by asking “What must the other person be thinking to say or do that?”
4. Set the example of forgiveness by forgiving yourself, forgiving your children, and forgiving others so that your children learn to do the same. Teach them that forgiveness paves the way for completion and applying valuable lessons learned from problematic situations.
5. Live with gratitude and support your children to be aware of, and grateful for, their many blessings. Encourage them to look for and speak about how their lives are blessed daily.
6. Teach each child to expect success, happiness, rich relationships and abundance. This will create the self-motivation to bring about these desired objectives as a self-fulfilling prophesy.
7. Teach children the art of visioning and support them to create a written personal vision for every aspect of their lives and to co-create a family vision with all family members.
8. Teach children to set goals that are attainable, but a stretch. Have these goals align with their inspirational visions and be supported by daily actions to bring them about deliberately.
9. Teach them to identify their most prevalent emotional response to stressful situations and to create mood-free interpretations at will that are free of anger, sadness and fear by developing empathy for the other person’s perspective.
10. Teach children effective organizational and study skills. Support them to set daily priorities and realize the importance of planning for success by having a daily action plan and a commitment to personal development so that they are not easily derailed by problems.
It’s very important to build a healthy self-esteem in your child from a young age. Of course there will still be times where they doubt themselves, however by following the steps above you’ll help increase their confidence and give them the skills to develop healthy relationships throughout their lives.
If you have children, or you work with them, we’d be interested in hearing whether there’s anything you do to build their self-esteem. Please share your tips and advice below.
2. Assist each child to identify and pursue special hobbies, interests and passions that empower their lives and develop their unique gifts.
3. Regularly support children to see the other person’s perspective and to possess empathy and understanding. Support them to realize that allowing others to upset them is always optional and easily avoided by asking “What must the other person be thinking to say or do that?”
4. Set the example of forgiveness by forgiving yourself, forgiving your children, and forgiving others so that your children learn to do the same. Teach them that forgiveness paves the way for completion and applying valuable lessons learned from problematic situations.
5. Live with gratitude and support your children to be aware of, and grateful for, their many blessings. Encourage them to look for and speak about how their lives are blessed daily.
6. Teach each child to expect success, happiness, rich relationships and abundance. This will create the self-motivation to bring about these desired objectives as a self-fulfilling prophesy.
7. Teach children the art of visioning and support them to create a written personal vision for every aspect of their lives and to co-create a family vision with all family members.
8. Teach children to set goals that are attainable, but a stretch. Have these goals align with their inspirational visions and be supported by daily actions to bring them about deliberately.
9. Teach them to identify their most prevalent emotional response to stressful situations and to create mood-free interpretations at will that are free of anger, sadness and fear by developing empathy for the other person’s perspective.
10. Teach children effective organizational and study skills. Support them to set daily priorities and realize the importance of planning for success by having a daily action plan and a commitment to personal development so that they are not easily derailed by problems.
It’s very important to build a healthy self-esteem in your child from a young age. Of course there will still be times where they doubt themselves, however by following the steps above you’ll help increase their confidence and give them the skills to develop healthy relationships throughout their lives.
If you have children, or you work with them, we’d be interested in hearing whether there’s anything you do to build their self-esteem. Please share your tips and advice below.